I am a licensed clinical therapist, self love advocate and owner of North Node therapy... where we provide culturally competent therapeutic services to BIPOC in NY. Our goal is and has always been to normalize people of color getting the support they need to be well mentally, and emotionally.
The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration. However, for many, it can also bring stress, loneliness, and emotional challenges. Navigating the holiday season with your mental health intact can be difficult, but it is not impossible. I’m going to offer you a few tips.
1. Acknowledge Your Feelings:
It’s important to recognize that not everyone experiences unbridled joy during the holidays. Feelings of grief, loneliness, or even anxiety can be amplified during this season. Acknowledging your emotions and allowing yourself to feel them is the first step to managing them.
2. Set Realistic Expectations:
The pressure to create a “perfect” holiday can be overwhelming. Remember that it’s okay not to have a picture-perfect celebration. Focus on what’s manageable and meaningful for you and your loved ones.
3. Prioritize Self-Care:
During a time when you’re busy taking care of others, don’t forget to take care of yourself. Make self-care a priority. Whether it’s reading a book, taking a walk, or enjoying a warm bath, make sure that you carve out time for relaxation and self-renewal.
4. Manage Holiday Stress:
The hustle and bustle of the season can be incredibly stressful. Consider stress management techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga to help you stay grounded.
5. Reach Out for Support:
Don’t hesitate to lean on your support network. Talk to friends, family, or a therapist if you’re feeling overwhelmed or sad. They can provide comfort and understanding.
6. Volunteer and Give Back:
Contributing to your community or helping those in need can be a great way to shift your focus from personal stress to the spirit of giving.
7. Maintain Healthy Boundaries:
It’s okay to say no to events or activities that you find draining. Set boundaries to protect your mental and emotional well-being.
8. Practice Gratitude:
In the midst of the holiday chaos, take time to reflect on the things you’re grateful for. Practicing gratitude can improve your outlook and boost your mood.
9. Stay Active and Eat Well:
Regular exercise and a balanced diet can help maintain your physical and mental well-being. Avoid excessive consumption of holiday treats that may affect your mood.
10. Create New Traditions:
If the holidays bring painful memories or if you’re spending them alone, consider creating new traditions that make you feel happier and more connected.
11. Seek Professional Help if Needed:
If you’re struggling with persistent emotional challenges, don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional. They can provide the support and guidance you need.
The holiday season can be both joyous and challenging, but by taking proactive steps to prioritize your mental health, you can navigate it with grace and resilience. Remember, self-compassion and self-care are key to enjoying the holidays while preserving your emotional well-being.
Share your personal tips for maintaining mental health during the holidays in the comments below. Let’s create a supportive community to help one another during this time of year.
I am a licensed clinical therapist, self love advocate and owner of North Node therapy... where we provide culturally competent therapeutic services to BIPOC in NY. Our goal is and has always been to normalize people of color getting the support they need to be well mentally, and emotionally.