I am a licensed clinical therapist, self love advocate and owner of North Node therapy... where we provide culturally competent therapeutic services to BIPOC in NY. Our goal is and has always been to normalize people of color getting the support they need to be well mentally, and emotionally.
Introduction:
Improving mental health often involves not just what we should do, but also what we should stop doing. In this blog post, we’ll explore some common habits and behaviors that can negatively impact mental well-being and provide insights into why it’s essential to break free from them for a healthier, happier life.
1. Stop Self-Criticism:
Self-criticism can be a significant drain on mental health. Instead of berating yourself for perceived shortcomings, practice self-compassion and self-acceptance.
2. Quit Bottling Up Emotions:
Suppressing emotions can lead to increased stress and anxiety. Allow yourself to feel and express your emotions in a healthy way, whether through journaling, talking to a friend, or seeking therapy.
3. End Perfectionism:
Striving for perfection can be paralyzing and lead to chronic stress. Accept that perfection is unattainable, and instead focus on progress and growth.
4. Stop Neglecting Self-Care:
Self-care is not a luxury; it’s a necessity for mental health. Prioritize self-care practices such as regular exercise, adequate sleep, and relaxation.
5. Break Free from Toxic Relationships:
Toxic relationships can be detrimental to your mental well-being. Recognize when a relationship is harmful and create boundaries or distance as needed.
6. Quit Ruminating on the Past:
Constantly dwelling on past mistakes or regrets can lead to anxiety and depression. Practice mindfulness to stay in the present moment.
7. Stop Comparing Yourself:
Comparing yourself to others can erode self-esteem. Instead, focus on your unique journey and achievements.
8. End the Avoidance of Professional Help:
If you’re struggling with mental health issues, don’t avoid seeking professional help. Mental health professionals can provide valuable support and treatment.
9. Quit Neglecting Physical Health:
Physical and mental health are closely intertwined. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep all contribute to better mental health.
10. Break the Cycle of Overthinking:
Overthinking can lead to anxiety and indecision. Practice mindfulness, meditation, or cognitive-behavioral techniques to manage your thoughts.
11. Stop Isolating Yourself:
Isolation can worsen mental health issues. Make an effort to stay connected with friends and family, even when you don’t feel like it.
12. End Negative Self-Talk:
Replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations. Challenge your inner critic with self-encouragement and self-belief.
Conclusion:
Improving mental health often involves letting go of unhelpful habits and behaviors. By quitting self-criticism, bottling up emotions, perfectionism, and toxic relationships, and embracing self-care, positive self-talk, and professional help, you can pave the way for a healthier and more fulfilling life. Remember, it’s a journey, and breaking free from these habits is a significant step toward improved mental well-being.
I am a licensed clinical therapist, self love advocate and owner of North Node therapy... where we provide culturally competent therapeutic services to BIPOC in NY. Our goal is and has always been to normalize people of color getting the support they need to be well mentally, and emotionally.