I am a licensed clinical therapist, self love advocate and owner of North Node therapy... where we provide culturally competent therapeutic services to BIPOC in NY. Our goal is and has always been to normalize people of color getting the support they need to be well mentally, and emotionally.
Having a support system of friends is essential for your emotional health. Friends can be a source of encouragement and comfort during difficult times, helping to lift your spirits and provide perspective when you’re feeling down. But, it’s important to remember that not all friendships are created equal. In some cases, certain friends may actually have a negative impact on your emotional well-being.
It’s important to be mindful of the type of relationships you have and the influence they have on your emotions. Here are some tips on how to cultivate healthy friendships that will help boost your emotional health:
It’s important to identify people who make you feel good about yourself and life in general. Choose friends who bring out the best in you, who are encouraging, who make you laugh, and who are supportive.
If you have friends who are negative or critical, it’s important to set boundaries to protect your emotional well-being. Communicate how their behavior makes you feel and explain that it’s not acceptable. Be clear with them about what you will and won’t accept in your friendship.
Having friends who share your interests and passions can be incredibly rewarding. They can provide a positive distraction when you’re feeling down and can offer motivation when you’re feeling unmotivated.
Having a positive outlook on life is essential for emotional health. Find friends who are positive and optimistic, and avoid those who are constantly negative or pessimistic.
It’s important to get to know someone before you become friends. Make sure you’re comfortable with the person and that you share similar beliefs and values.
By following these tips, you can make sure your friendships are beneficial for your emotional health. Remember, your emotional well-being is just as important as your physical health, so take care of it and make sure your friends are doing the same.
I am a licensed clinical therapist, self love advocate and owner of North Node therapy... where we provide culturally competent therapeutic services to BIPOC in NY. Our goal is and has always been to normalize people of color getting the support they need to be well mentally, and emotionally.